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About Bren J Fraser, MA, LMFT

Bren J Fraser, MA, LMFT
Bren J Fraser, MA, LMFT

About Me

The primary focus of my work is relationships. I’m passionate about supporting individuals, couples, and families of all ages in creating meaningful connections, building resilience, and finding balance. My approach is eclectic, drawing from play and art therapy, the restorative power of nature, and evidence-based therapeutic practices.

I believe the heart of therapy is the therapeutic relationship — a space where you feel safe, supported, and truly heard. Our work together is collaborative, and I adjust my style to fit your needs so you can reach your goals.

I invite curiosity, questions, and open dialogue about your process, knowing that self-understanding is key to growth.

My Background & Training

A lifelong curiosity about human connection and communication led me to:

  • B.A. in Communication Studies – UC Santa Barbara (1984)
  • Massage Therapy License – Santa Barbara School of Massage (1990)
  • Certificate in Expressive Arts Therapy – Sky Mountain Institute, San Diego (2000)
  • M.A. in Counseling Psychology – Institute of Imaginal Studies, Meridian University, Petaluma (2005)

I bring over 30 years of experience helping people strengthen self-reliance, communication, coping skills, and self-esteem. My work has included:

  • Psychotherapy for at-risk teenagers and their caregivers in collaboration with Santa Barbara School District
  • Extensive knowledge of school systems, IEPs, 504 plans, and behavioral support plans
  • Parent skills training and family therapy to strengthen communication and problem-solving
  • Supporting young adults in the “launching” process — navigating the transition to independence with confidence and resilience
  • Working with couples using Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) to help individuals and couples understand and identify their feelings in order to deepen emotional connection, repair bonds, and improve communication

My Approach

Through my own personal healing journey, I’ve experienced the power of creativity, nature, and self-expression to transform lives. My work blends:

  • Imaginal Psychology – reclaiming the soul’s voice through imagery and imagination. For hundreds of years, psychology has focused on the mind and body, often leaving the soul behind. Reclaiming soul is the primary concern of Imaginal Psychology. The soul expresses itself in images, and caring for the soul asks that we pay close attention to the images we inhabit.
  • Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) – helping individuals and couples understand and identify their feelings in order to deepen emotional connection, repair bonds, and improve communication
  • Humanistic Psychology – honoring each person’s inherent worth and potential
  • Expressive Arts & Nature-Based Practices – integrating art, movement, and time outdoors into healing
  • Behavioral Strategies – behavior modification, emotional regulation, thought stopping, reframing, and harm reduction
Helping you turn your stumbling blocks into stepping stones.

Contact me today for your free consultation.

I can help you attain the personal growth you truly desire.

805.965.0448